I never thought in a
million years that we would be faced with the choices that we have for the
American presidency. On one hand, we
have a man that has done much for the people of this country even though many
don’t give him the credit for his actions.
And then we have a man who is deeply flawed and not interested in
governing as much as he is interested in paying people back for wrongdoings and
mistreatment by his perceived enemies.
The problem that many
people can’t seem to get passed regarding the current president is his
age. I understand it, and while I also
question his age, I also ask myself of the job that he has done while in
office.
Looking at the
ex-president, I question his ability to govern for all Americans if he manages
to govern at all. He has not made
mention of the policies that will benefit the lives of us all, but instead is
focused on getting back at everyone that he feels has wronged him…even people
that are trying to uphold the laws of this nation.
We may feel like we are
caught between a rock and a hard place, and for some, truer words may never
have been spoken. But more is on the
ballot besides the choices that we have.
If we were dealing with men that are interested in governing and believed
that if they lost, the thing that most candidates would do is to concede graciously. We do not have that. While one man is interested in governing, we
have another who is telling you exactly what he will do if he obtains the Whitehouse. He will shred our democratic norms by turning
our democracy into an autocracy. He will
take a sledgehammer to the Constitution and change how he lives by never
leaving office. He will weaponize the
government and use that power to persecute his perceived enemies. We will never hear the end of how unfairly he
has been treated by the laws that have upheld our country for centuries and cherry
pick which laws he chooses to keep in place.
What most people want is
to live in a space where their livelihoods are protected, and their way of life
will not take a turn for the worse.
I
want the same thing.
My motto has always
been, “you don’t bother me and mine, and I won’t bother you and yours.”
I want my rights kept intact.
I want to stay married and reside in my
little piece of the planet where I am safe and undisturbed.
I want to worship how I’ve always worshiped
and love the way I love.
Women should have the
right to do what they want with their own bodies which include the ability to
start families when they are ready and not have the government make that choice
for them. Most importantly, we all
deserve to exercise our right to vote, and we deserve to have that right to not
be meddled with or in some cases not to be hindered by the powers that be.
At the end of the day,
the elected officials are in office because we trust them to make life better for
all of us, which means implementing policies that will benefit all of us. Maya Angelou said it best, “When a person shows
you who they are, believe them the first time.”
I firmly believe that a
smaller group of people don’t have the right to impose their will/beliefs on
the majority. But we have to understand this
country was founded under the guise of people coming here, seeing the resources
the land had, and then taking it for themselves in the name of Christianity.
Our country was founded
on lies and falsehoods. It was founded
under the basis of subjugating whole races of people into enslavement and the
narrative has always been that the people being were being repressed because
somehow, they could not govern themselves and often had to work for little to
no money to keep the slaveholders in a lifestyle that they had become accustomed
to. That is a fact.
Sadly, some of our citizens
feel threatened. They feel as if their way of life is under
attack when the simple truth of the matter is when you are used to being on the
top of the food chain, equality can look and feel like repression.
We can live together side
by side in peace. Harmony may be a
stretch, but peace is viable. For that
to happen, people need to recognize and change their view of
self-importance. We need to understand
that there is more than enough for all of us.
In addition, we need to
understand that violence never resolved anything. The only thing that violence proves (at least
in this country) is who is better equipped and armed to commit these types of
acts against its own citizens. Violence
never proved strength. It just makes it
easier for a minority to force their viewpoints and beliefs on others
regardless of the legitimacy of their ideologies.
Without leaning too far
into my personal beliefs, I wanted to share one last thought with you. My neighborhood is quiet. The residents on my block either know each
other personally or at least by face. We
are a melting pot of multi-racial, LGBTQ and heterosexual people living side by
side. We live in peace with each of us addressing
our own kitchen table issues in the confines of our homes. And we aim to keep it like that.
We have a choice in 2024. Let’s just hope that we choose wisely.
~ J.L. Whitehead